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This article was posted to the fnord-l mailing list in February 1996. While fnord-l was notionally about the ideas and humour of Robert Anton Wilson's Illuminatus! trilogy, devotees of dada, surrealism or cheerful paranoia felt free to post whatever occurred to them. Pseudonyms and sock-puppetry were almost the norm, but everyone was in on the joke and it ran a bit like a private Marx Brothers movie. I rarely posted, mostly just enjoying the cut and thrust of others' posts. As was the norm in those times, it was composed and presumed to be viewed in a fixed font; it's formatted as such here, but if that's not what you're seeing then I suggest you copy and paste the text somewhere that allows you to do so.

I started out on fnord-l not long after I first got onto usenet, early in the 1990s - when the Internet was a smaller, wilder place, but all the more civil and interesting for it: before the great wave that was Eternal September broke over us all and washed away the old world forever. Fnord-l was obscure and odd enough to mostly carry on as a relict of a bygone age; but occasionally we'd be discovered by newbies who would sometimes get the joke but more often just leave, scratching their heads.

This post was inspired by a user who posted as Jeff Iverson, who showed every sign of not getting the joke - seemingly oblivious to the point (which was, none) or culture of the list - but who, for some considerable time, showed no sign of leaving: engaging innocent weirdos in arguments about the folly of resisting logic and urging submission to a materialist objective reality. I think most of us suspected he was just a sock puppet for one of the group regulars, but it seemed like there was no punch line and no-one ever owned up; so eventually I posted this by way of rebuttal, in a prose form as obscure and now-obsolete as the group itself.



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From: John Pearson 
Subject:      Dismembering an Old Friend (was Re: Introduction)
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In-Reply-To:  Your message of "Tue, 06 Feb 1996 13:43:00 -0000."
              

I'm sorry that I didn't respond to 5's post earlier; things
have been fairly busy in the last couple of weeks in the P.
household.  I've read a number of 5's posts in the meantime
and am, in hindsight, surprised to find a naive materialist
(such as 5) at loose at such close quarters.  The post that
initially caught my eye was along the lines of a philosophy
essay question: "men have been taught either that knowledge
is impossible (skepticism), or that it is available without
effort (mysticism)".  Initially I tossed this aside more or
less casually, pointing out the fallacy embedded within the
question itself, but as time passed it became apparent that
our correspondent is *serious*.  He believes in an absolute
reality that can be observed directly; he also (here I make
some inferences, based on his subsequent posts) thinks that
all that we can, or need to, know about the "real" world is
available by the application of rational thought to sensory
experiences (provided, of course, that those experiences be
"genuine" experiences of the real world, and not some other
kind of experiences, distorted by hallucination so as to be
invalid).  I was going to reply with a long, reasoned essay
setting out some reasons for believing in a subjective view
of reality, but I don't think I will (well, perhaps later).
Instead, I think I'll tell you how, yesterday, I dismantled
my sofa ("lounge" to you essaiens; my apologies in advance,
arrears and any other direction for any misunderstanding; I
speak English like a native, but my American is, sadly, the
result largely of endless reruns of The Lucy Show and Happy
Days (can you still get VitaMetaVegarin?  Did Potsy & Ralph
ever...you know...?  And what about The Fonz and Mrs C.?)).

But first I'll fill in some of the background to the events
that took place.  My wife goes to school during the day, on
the other side of town; it's a mature-age school, which she
likes because classes are small and full of people who want
to be there, so they're all fairly sociable and keen to get
on with it.  One of her friends there was a young mother of
two, who was from Ireland and, after a failed marriage, was
going to return there.  Her plan was to drive from Adelaide
(here, in South Australia) to Brisbane in Queensland, where
she would stay with some relatives for a time before flying
home.  She did have some things to sort out: she had picked
up quite a lot of stuff while she was here; some she had to
sell, and some she would take with her.  Unfortunately, her
car was a small four-door sedan that was built in 1979, and
didn't have any airconditioning; she couldn't fit her stuff
and her children in it at the same time, and driving across
half of Australia in the middle of summer, with the windows
wound down in a car that was... well, getting on was not an
inviting prospect.  "It's no good," she confided to my wife
"I'll have to sell this car and hire a nice one for driving
to Brisbane.  Not that I'll get much... I only paid $750.00
myself, although I've spent a bit on it.  It's annoying, as
I really need to get rid of it by the end of next week.  If
only someone I knew was looking for an old bomb.  Runs fine
too - just don't look at the body."  My wife pricked up her
ears.  She'd got her licence the previous year; she set out
to get a motorbike licence, but had ended up getting a full
licence because the system here made it convenient.  Riding
her bike was her favourite way to get around, but the times
when she needed to take stuff to school, or wanted to drive
into the country for a weekends' camping, had taught her to
appreciate the advantages of car ownership.  So, after some
quick negotiating, a deal was struck.  She spoke again: "If
only I knew someone who wanted my modular lounge suite.  It
seems a pity to just throw it away; it's in good shape." My
wife said "Oh!  Well, actually..."  In just a few moments I
was unwitting owner of a 5 piece brown velour modular suite
for the sum of $60, as well as a chest freezer for nothing,
because she didn't think it the sort of thing people bought
at garage sales.

But I'm getting ahead of myself again; we really need to go
back 15 years, to before I got married.  My parents noticed
that our tiny one bedroom flat had just two small armchairs
for visitors, and so they resolved to buy us a lounge suite
as a wedding present.  So one day my wife and parents drove
to the local emporium looking for the largest most tasteful
lounge suite, from the cheaper end of the market that would
fit in our diminutive lounge room. They found a great broad
hulking 3-piece suite that would seat 5 people with lots of
elbow room, and still somehow fit into our flat.  Still hot
with the first flush of youthful passion, we spent a lot of
time on that sofa: even if we were just watching television
we would sit side by side, reassured by the gentle brush of
our partner at our side, and the solidity of our sofa under
us.  Our sofa saw just about every detail of our social and
private life over the next ten years; we ate, read, talked,
wrote, studied, drank and smoked on it.  It came to be like
another member of the family; its personality developed, as
it acquired stains, sags and bumps, soft spots and hard, as
we all do over time.  We moved often, and each time we went
looking at new places to live we would consider, along with
how many power points there were and whether there was room
for all of the books, whether there was a place to park our
sofa.  Funnily enough, there always was.  Still, all things
must pass, and a couple of years ago our sofa's personality
developed to the point that it could no longer be relied on
to be hospitable to our guests; when that happened (really,
about a year after that happened) my wife and I had a quiet
but serious talk, in the kitchen.  We moved our beloved old
friend into our "library", a room full of books that served
as somewhere we could read or whatever quietly sufficiently
far from the front door that we could be undisturbed unless
we chose to be.  We bought a lounge suite with a more easy-
going personality for our lounge; for a while we could have
our cake *and* eat it too.  For a while, at least.  However
habits change, and we often now find ourselves entertaining
in our library; our grumpy old sofa was again the cause for
some mild embarrasment.  So when my wife's friend (remember
her?) started talking about throwing away her own perfectly
good lounge suite, my wife exercised her acquisitive drive.

Anyway, the new lounge suite arrived about a week ago: we'd
talked it over, and I had moved our "good" lounge suite out
to the library; our old, familiar sofa was stood on its end
against the wall leaving room for the new lounge suite.  We
were undecided as to what to do about the old sofa; finally
we decided to see how much room was left over after the new
lounge suite was in place.  As it turned out, there was not
much room left over at all with the new lounge suite in.  I
had always thought our lounge was quite large, but the room
was filled almost from one corner to another by a large, L-
shaped wedge of brown velour.  Our TV and a heavy bookshelf
cut us off from the kitchen at one corner, and our familiar
old sofa, leaned against the wall, completed the job on our
other flank.  After re-arranging the furniture I opened one
route to the rest of the house, but it was clear that I had
to decide what to do about the sofa *now*.  So I considered
my options for a couple of days.  The council has a regular
"hard rubbish" collection, but regular here means once each
October, and we weren't in a mood to wait.  As to giving it
away to someone, we didn't know anyone that desperate.  The
new car worked fine, but there was no way that our old sofa
would fit in it.  My wife said, "Why don't we take it apart
and just throw it out with the regular rubbish?"  I said it
would take us forever, but she said there would probably be
a lot of padding, and not much actual wood inside.  I tried
but failed to think of any reason why we shouldn't.  So, we
determined to dismantle our old sofa, friend and witness to
a dozen happy years of our life together.  It was an aweful
prospect: the sofa had been a silent member of our personal
household for as long as we'd had a household.  It had been
witness to all of our married life; it knew things about us
that noone else did.  Yet, when we decided to take it apart
we realised that, as closely as we knew it, we knew nothing
about how it was held together.

We pushed the new furniture to one side, and stood the sofa
on its feet.  My wife started out, taking the fabric off of
the back support, and removing a single wad of foam padding
about six feet by three.  With the covering pulled back, we
could see the wooden framework, and how it was constructed.
It was obvious that it had been constructed in the shortest
time possible; everything that could be attached using wire
staples, was.  Thousands of them: little, 26/6 wire staples
holding the fabric to the frame, two tightly-packed, angle-
parked rows anchoring each piece of webbing (the attractive
diagonal pattern presumably a compromise between labor time
expended and load bearing acheived); heavy, long, evil wire
staples fired two inches into the pine, perhaps a dozen for
each join; and a few extra-nasty wire staples, made of wire
about 3mm diameter, for those heavy-duty bits.  So I sat on
the floor and started removing staples.  After about two or
three hours I had stripped the fabric from the wooden frame
and, in the process, found an old bridge hand (written down
of course), a pen knife my wife had almost forgotten owning
(let alone losing), and an old-style bus ticket (an article
of some small interest, at least in SA).  Then I prised the
members of the frame off piece by piece using principles of
basic mechanics that I had studied in Physics IHM, but that
I had somehow miraculously been using, seeming instinctive,
for years and a stout screwdriver; when some join would not
budge, I'd check and find a long, countersunk phillips-head
screw (phillips-heads are easier to insert using drills): I
found a grand total of eight screws, and two glued joins in
the entire frame; however, I got a *very* impressive (well,
at least, when measured by weight) pile of staples.  By the
end of the day, we had a collection of a dozen or so planks
about 6 feet long, a bucket full of bits one or two feet in
length, a garbage bag full of fabric (my wife took the foam
padding and cut it up into bricks, and offered it to school
for use in the lab; apparently it wasn't very absorbent but
they took it anyway, because the price was right) and a big
pile of staples.

So, what did I learn from all of this?
  - Statistically, it appears foolish to argue that
    there are more trees in the world than staples;
  - They don't make sofas like they used to (should
    that be they didn't use to make sofas like they
    did before that?);
  - There exists a niche market opening for a small
    cheap, rapid and automatic machine for removing
    staples;
  - I really can go on like that for a long time;
  - What it's like to dismember an old friend.

What?  Well, what did you expect?  It's my sofa, and I took
it apart; all you've done is read.  My palms are bruised by
removing umpteen thousand staples with a screwdriver, yours
are not; I'm the one who's rendered a part of his life down
to so much kindling, to be thrown out with the garbage.  It
was a deeply spiritual experience, in its own way.  You aim
to learn something, take apart your *own* furniture!

Brings to my mind something that an old friend of mine once
said: "You never *really* know someone until you've been to
the autopsy".


John P.


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